Sometimes we just can’t work out the tricky areas of our their lives on our own. The topics are too personal and emotions too deep. We all want and need things that make us feel whole, comfortable, respected and safe. You want those things. The person with whom you are in relationship also wants those things. You may want them so badly you will fight to get them. But what if both of you were on the same team working toward getting your mutual needs met?
Discover and express your needs
I will help you say the hard things that need to be said, and say them in a way that they can be heard. I will help you clarify meanings, keep things on a positive note, understand each other’s perspectives, and teach you how to work with each others’ nervous systems to bring about the best possible results for everyone involved.
When we stay in conversation, solutions naturally arise. They just do. My experience is that most people want to meet their partner’s needs, at least to some degree, once they understand what those needs are.
