Your Needs Are the Basis of Heart Mediation

Sometimes we just can’t work out the tricky areas of our their lives on our own.  The topics are too personal and emotions too deep. We all want and need things that make us feel whole, comfortable, respected and safe. You want those things. The person with whom you are in relationship also wants those things. You may want them so badly you will fight to get them. But what if both of you were on the same team working toward getting your mutual needs met?

Discover and express your needs

I will help you say the hard things that need to be said, and say them in a way that they can be heard. I will help you clarify meanings, keep things on a positive note, understand each other’s perspectives, and teach you how to work with each others’ nervous systems to bring about the best possible results for everyone involved.

When we stay in conversation, solutions naturally arise. They just do. My experience is that most people want to meet their partner’s needs, at least to some degree, once they understand what those needs are.

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I Am Not Your Usual Mediator

Yes, I will help you come to agreements like every other mediator, but my approach is a little different.  My background as a Relationship Systems Coach provides the possibility for unusually creative results.  Our brainstorming sessions can generate ideas you’ve not yet thought of.

The truth is, if you could solve this you already would have.

You are not the people who can solve this right now. Some growth and new perspectives is required. Having a skilled third party is essential.  You’re reading this because you want a solution to the chaos so things can settle down. Well you’ve found it.

Jeannine, thank you again for the space you hold. It has been invaluable to have you present during this time and helping us navigate a huge part of our lives. R&K, CO

Call me at 303-746-7000, or get on my calendar to see if this is the solution for you.

Heart Mediation:

  • Allows the time and space you need to explore into the far reaching impact of your decisions.
  • Gives place and grace to discover and express why you want what you want.
  • Honors all viewpoints, which allows a solution to arise naturally and organically, becoming obvious to all.
  • Uses a needs-based approach. We want to know why you want what you want so we can meet that need. The solution may not be the most obvious one. We seek to meet everyone’s needs going forward. This can take many forms.
  • Allows ample time to brainstorm and weigh many options. Not every option arises quickly. Not every option is viable. All options must be weighed in light of your ultimate goals.
  • Takes the time you need for your insides to rearrange just like your outer world is rearranging.

Your next step:

Call me for a free initial conversation about how Heart Mediation could work for you. 303-746-7000

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